We leave day after tomorrow. I can hardly type it. The suitcases are bulging with everything we could possibly need for the next two weeks. Which means we've probably forgotten something really important like underwear or deodorant. But none of that will matter as long as we have our boy.
Flying away from my girls will be the hardest hard. My beautiful sister wrote this to me, "It is a very hard and very good thing you are doing, and you can't do the good without engaging the hard, and that must cause you pain." It does indeed. I have found myself watching my girls this week and crying silent tears at the thought of flying away from them. It seemed easier when we were leaving all three, but it's clear Maggie needs to come and it's just too darn expensive to take them all. China is not for the faint of heart and they've been once. They have wonderful babysitters and a Nana and Papa who have strict instructions to rest up so they can be ON when we land. We will need their help more than ever when we get home.
Friday morning we fly to Chicago, to Beijing and then to Hohhot, Inner Mongolia. It's about 24 hours of travel and with Peter and Maggie both sick as dogs right now, we could really use some prayer coverage.
Sometime on Monday, May 4, XingYou Chen will be brought to our hotel and given to us. The next day he will officially become Abram XingYou Vos. We will stay in Hohhot until Friday morning when we'll fly to Guangzhou for the rest of our time. Medical exam will take place on Saturday with our consulate appt on Tuesday morning. On Wednesday afternoon we will be given Abram's Visa and will be free to leave. We will fly to Beijing late Weds and then home via San Francisco and Chicago on Thursday the 14th.
We need you, prayer warriors.
~This trip is taxing at best, a bit of a killer with young kids. Maggie is a wild card. Pray she feels well as she is a cuss when she's sick. In fact, will you pray for health for all of us, including Lulu and Tess?
~Pray for our goodbyes on Friday. I can't even.
~Pray for our girls being left home. For their tender hearts and that the time speeds by until we are together.
~Pray that the seeds of adoption will be sown as we share our journey with whoever is crazy enough to listen. This is work we are all called to do if we claim to follow Jesus, this caring for orphans work. Pray it gets done.
~Pray for unity for Dan and I. That this bring us even closer together. That satan's hand is stayed as he seeks to break us down in myriad ways.
~Pray for our Abram boy. That his heart will be prepared for the incredible upset he is about to face. He has known such loss already, ask Father to heal his heart as he knits him into our family.
Thank you, dear ones, for your support. It means the world to us. We are terrified and anxious and thrilled and a million other things all rolled up. Bless you for putting up with that mess.
This is me being real. Pretty positive Maggie has been unpacking things over the last few weeks and squirreling them away in places I'll find when the kids move out. Please let it not be perishable of expensive.